El mundo es un panuelo
Long time, huh?
Long time, huh?
Except for the Filipino couple at the eighth floor I don't know any other living soul in my apartment.
Now you have to realize this is very different from where I come from. Back in my 'hood in Zamboanga City, everybody knew each other.
Welcome to Boa, San Jose road. Population, approximately 500. Let me walk you through my childhood neighborhood.
Right in front of our house lived an old grandmother and her grandchildren, Day-Day and Night-Night. I never found out what their real names were. I remember my siblings and I ganging up on Night-Night one day because she told us that she liked our dad and asked us if he could be her dad as well. She never had a father figure as she and her sister were born out of wedlock. My siblings and I were childish and stupid and should never have told Night-Night we would kill her if she stole our father from us. From the bottom of my heart, I'm sorry, Night-Night.
A few yards away from our house lived the Husseins. They are a Muslim bunch with a wicked sense of humor- they named one of their kids Saddam, so this kid's full name is Saddam Hussein. All of the Hussein kids are nurses. Right next to the Husseins is another Muslim family that always played mahjong. Once they caused a big fuss when they caught a thief in their house. They beat the guy up, and then tied him to a tree for a few hours before calling the cops. Poor thief was stripped naked. In that same house lived Neng. Neng had a retarded son, Jordan, whom she gave up when he was born. She gave him up to her own mother, Nida, who lived just a few blocks away. Nida raised Jordan as her own.
The children's playground in Boa is at the Laygan's compound. It's a large open space where we would ride our bikes around, play tag and hold our little gang meetings. Two of the Laygan kids are Chet and Clark. Chet liked Mimie of the Hussein family. One time, to express his affection for Mimie, Chet told Mimie to hold out her palm, and then he spit on it.
The most famous person in our neighborhood would be Zeny, a well-respected lady who worked as a radio announcer. She was very articulate in Chavacano, and also very active in the church. She and some other devout Catholics would usually hold some Bible-sharing activities in the neighborhood. One day it was held in our house and my siblings and I were taken aback when Zeny started speaking in tongues.
We had a gay neighbor named Pendong. Pendong had a live-in boyfriend named Ricky. One day the entire neighborhood woke up to the loud moans of Pendong. There was a huge commotion because Pendong had slashed his wrists. Apparently Ricky left him for Annie, who incidentally, lived right next to them. Ricky and Annie eventually got married. Annie is one of the ten children of Betty. I went to elementary and high school with another one of Betty's kids, Globy. I had actually blogged about Betty before, if you remember. She was the one who would come to our house to chat with my aunt Leonor. On one occasion, Betty narrated how she was lured and uhm, "abused" by some guy in Palau when she went there for a vacation. Betty's husband worked in Palau as a carpenter.
Pendong's brother is Kindal, a feared drug addict and alcholic. He was always nuts and would sometimes threaten my oldest aunt when he was high. When he was not under the influence however, he would plead with my aunt for leftover food.
A short distance away lived Fran and her husband Ramon who worked as a career soldier in the army. While Fran's husband was from the Armed Forces of the Philippines, her brother on the other hand was a member of the communist group New People's Army. But that was never a problem. There's peace and brotherly love in our quaint little neighborhood.
Sept 08, 2006
113 days before Christmas
Hi Tony, I am seeking your early permission to allow me to take a vacation leave for six days (Dec. 20 - 22 and 27 – 29). I’ll be going home to Zamboanga City to be with my family for Christmas. Unlike Manila-based employees, I don’t really have the liberty of seeing them anytime I want as they live miles away, so I am hopeful that this request be approved. Pardon this early request, I will be purchasing my plane ticket as early as possible to secure my flight back as scheduled— seats are very difficult and costly to secure during the holidays.
Early Christmas cheers,
Jesse
Okay, so maybe I was little too excited asking for the leave as early as September but hey, that’s how you get things done in the corporate world.
The VL's I took were just for 6 days, but considering the non-working holidays and all, I would actually be out of Manila on Dec. 20 and back on January 2. So excited!



I love this phone, and it’s actually cheap – just around four grand for brand new! I got it for that price because I bought it from a wholesaler whom I met on the internet. (Leave a note for his number.) This phone already has a 64K color LCD, can download themes, can play mp3 ringtones and browse the net. It also has an Expense Manager application to help me monitor my expenses. It’s like the Nokia 6230i but without the bluetooth, camera and video player and with much less memory. But who needs these things, I already have digicam. And the flip phone feature sealed the deal.














beef barbecue and chops of compressed rice. It doesn’t really taste that good but because I couldn’t find it in Manila, I sort of convinced myself that I just gotta have it. And I did. Now I need to get my hands on marang, this exotic fruit that sells for 10 to 20 pesos in Zamboanga but comes at a steep 250 pesos in Manila.


Eric was backpacking through Asia and the Philippines was first leg of his journey. He’d been to several cities and provinces in the country before this trip to Zamboanga (actually, he’s been to more places in the country in two months than I’ve been in my entire life), and he was headed to Sindangan, Malaysia right the next day. I asked him how much he’s spent for his Philippine stint and he shared he had spent around two thousand dollars (roughly one hundred thousand pesos). It’s kind of unfair because you can’t backpack through the United States or UK for two months with just that amount. Silly third world boy me.











I brought my sister Divine to Mindpro Citimall to catch Happy Feet before heading to the Metropolitan Cathedral to meet my parents for the New Year’s Day mass. I had already watched the movie in Makati but because Divine wanted to see them penguins, I sat through the entire movie anyway.
I used to do a lot of debating. Competitive debating. As in the whole "spirit of the motion" and "you failed to address the real issue" thing.
It started when I was in sophomore college in Ateneo de Zamboanga University. They needed some fresh blood to participate in the Ateneo Fiesta Debates, and my Accounting 203 teacher John Itoh, himself one of the best debaters in Mindanao having won the championship in past Mindanao Parliamentary Debate tournaments (it was called something else then), invited me and some other classmates- Jeffrey Blanza, Carl Rubio and Austine Lim- to try out. Because there were too few people who actually showed up (meaning just the four of us), a "try-out" didn't happen and we were told we would be representing the Accountancy Department. The debate format was American Parliamentary and I got paired with Carl. It was a good pairing, Carl's specialty was politics, mine was economy. We reached the semis but lost to a high school team. Okay, let me explain. These high schoolers were more experienced than us. They've already been to real competitive tournaments before, debating against college students from all over Mindanao. Experience is a major factor in winning debates and these kids were fast learners, I admired them a big deal. Jeffrey and Austine took home the bacon, though.
In that semester, the Ateneo debate varsity invited me to join the club. I said yes, and when the veterans like Mark dela Cruz, Richard Labitag and Aying Clarito did a sort of showdown, I was intimidated a great deal and I wondered if my puny little self could handle something like that. Competitive debating is a lot about intimidation and well, vanity. I was really more into being a laid back writer since I did a lot of campus journalism back in high school. They convinced me otherwise and in that year, I joined my first inter-school tournament, the 3rd Mindanao Parlimentary Debate Championships in Butuan City. I, Austine and Jeffrey composed Team B, and we broke to the quarterfinals. That tournament was a turning point; it was then that I realized I really loved competitive debating. A lot. The pressure gave me diarrhea lots of times, but it was worth it. In that summer, our trio joined the 8th All-Asians Parliamentary Championships wherein I was ranked 53rd in Asia at the end of the tournament. Yes, I remember that fondly. Haha! Insignificant as it may sound, I was quite proud of myself in that tournament because we won 3 of our 7 matches, and one was against our coach team composed of Aying, Richard and high school debate wonder Sharmila Parmanand. Sharms is now with the Ateneo Debate Society of ADMU winning the Nationals, Asians and making it to the Worlds semifinals. Way to go, Sharms!
The following year I joined my second Mindanao tournament which was held in Zamboanga City, and I was paired with Jenilee Awichen, who would become my constant debate "fartner" in other tournaments. We would also become really good friends. Our combination was fiery, and we made it to the Finals this time. We ranked a good second, losing to one team from Ateneo de Davao in the finals adjudicated by Joan de Venecia.
In my senior year, the pressure of the looming CPA Board exams won over the pressure of debating the counter-productiveness of fundamentalism for Islam so I decided to "keep a low profile" to focus on balancing my worksheets. That didn't go well with the debate varsity moderator Magdy and some fellows in the club, which created a sort of rift between us. I miss Magdy. Since I graduated and Magdy left for Bahrain, we haven't been in touch. In the next competitions, I managed to break but, well, didn't quite bring home the bacon. Tough.
Now, 3 years after I graduated from college, I'm back to the debate world thanks to my good friend Ruth! This time, however, I don't debate anymore- I adjudicate and help Ruth and Alih (a fellow Zamboangeno) coach budding debaters from Philippine Normal University. They're very new to competitive debate and have a long way to go, but you see potential when it stares right back at you. Ruth and I are both doing this without any financial gain, but the intangible return is really what matters. I get to practice being analytical and critical once more, and I get to mold some young minds to some degree. I love being able to teach the kids a thing or two.
Competitive debating is really more than just a speech contest. It's about being in the know about relevant issues that affect everyone- from the marginalized cluster of people in Sudan to the Secretary-General of the United Nations. It's about being skilled to think for one's self and possibly contribute to a well-informed society where the youth participate in public discourse of relevent issues. A really good debater from ADMU, Oliver Segovia, wrote an essay about the power of debate education and how it helps shape a democratic political culture among the (Filipino) youth. The essay won the World Bank International Essay Competition.
He writes:
I have always been opinionated, even as a child. I remember having my first debate in 7th grade speech class. Our debate was about the use of contraceptives for population control. At a time when my personal opinion favored the use contraceptives, I was asked to defend the opposite side. This was a critical part of my development as an individual. I had to take a position I did not personally believe in and defend myself in front of the whole class. I was first averse to the idea, but it broadened my thinking by leaps and bounds. By defending the other side, I was obligated to understand the opposing view. For the first time, I was considering two points of view, instead of just mine. I was seeking to understand, before seeking to be understood. The ability to think, to understand and to argue on both sides of two opposing ideas is a powerful tool. It enabled me think better about the choices I made in my academic, personal and professional life.
So totally agree.
I miss my neurotic pals from Terror City, especially Kat who works in Coca Cola, and Lois (pronounced loins without N, not like Superman’s bimbo love interest. Come on, you have to be really stupid to be fooled by pomade and some dorky eyeglasses). Lois is also called Toto slash Black Mamba.
There is a remarkable story to the origin of Eloisa’s nickname "Toto." When her mother was carrying Toto in her womb, an ultrasound test revealed a boy. The family decided on the "boy’s" nickname but were in for a surprise when instead a bouncing baby girl emerged from her mother’s uterus a couple of months after. By then, the family had already become attached to the masculine nickname they did not bother to re-nickname the baby. Since then, Eloisa answers to Toto. As for the origin of the Black Mamba alias, you can go ask her personally because i do not know.
Toto is the life of any group and is funnier than Conan O’brien meets Jim Carey meets Ogie Diaz. She is my local version of Lisa Kudrow, who was awesome in Romy and Michelle’s High School Reunion. She’s my favorite Friends cast too. Anyway, like me, Toto was a high school Valedictorian at Claret High School and appreciated a crazy in-your-face fit of laughter much more than memorizing mathematical formulae. When i moved to the Central Business District for my so-called career though, i underwent a phasing. I am no longer as crazy and funny as I used to be. I miss myself. But that’s entirely another story.
Here’s Toto before her sex change operation (hehehe…)

And here she is, four years after surgery…

Amazing.
I miss Mindpro too. It’s this small down-to-earth mall along La Purisima Street in Terror City. It’s the IN place back home, with its share of bums hanging out and some occasional bombings here and there. Hehe, kidding. Maybe not. Well there are occasional threats. I also miss satti. It’s this spicy red broth with compressed rice and little bits of beef barbecue on a stick. I got hooked to it in college when my classmates introduced me to this wonderful Southern creation. I can’t find it in Manila. I miss AIDS. AIDS as in Ateneo Intrepid Debate Society. It’s a small but popular student organization in Ateneo de Zamboanga that represented the university in debate tournaments.

I found great people of the same wave length in AIDS, people who were as neurotic as me. We liked to shove arguments down each others’ throats and discuss political, economic and social issues at the sidelines. I tried campus journalism, myself being chief editor way back in high school, but I was drawn to debating. The thrill of waiting for the motion, anticipating the government’s case when I’m in the opposition, prepping in as little as 15 minutes, and dropping some points of information now and then are incomparable. I loved it. And it was so cool when I found people who were as into debating as I was. We weren’t the best in the country, but we did make our mark by being the best in the region. AIDS has won the Mindanao cup too, several times. I got introduced to debating in my sophomore year when I represented the Accountancy team for the Debate Fiesta in Ateneo. Then I competed in my first real tournament in the Mindanao Parliamentary Debate Championship in Butuan City. My team made it to the quarterfinals. In that summer I debated in the Asians Parliamentary Championship, an annual event participated in by I think 7 Asian countries. I (think I) didn’t do bad, considering it was only my second real tournament and I beat my coaches (Richard, Aying and Sharmila, who's now world class) in one round.
The experiences in the Mindanao tourneys and the Nationals were always memorable and funny. Being true viciador ZamboangeƱos, we were always gagging in laughter in our hotel rooms after competitions. Sometimes I wish I was back in college.
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